A group of students in Manila
doing a research on incest in the Philippines recently communicated with me asking me to
contribute any information I had on cases of cousin marriages that I have
encountered in my genealogical work. I was particularly interested to assist
them because it dawned on me when I got the email that in the years I have been
writing about genealogy I have not really written extensively on cases of
incest, though in my opinion I prefer the term consanguineous relations or
marriage or even endogamy because these are more sanitized and less loaded
terms. Thus, this article will serve two purposes: one, it is to explore and
consolidate cases of cousin marriages in Philippine society and, two, it is to
serve as my contribution to the study of these students who requested for my
help.
The practice of marriage between
relatives is something old and common in all cultures of the world. The taboo
then and now is not necessarily attached to the idea of marrying a relative,
per se. Rather, the clear disdain that people attach to consanguineous
relationships or marriages is when two very close relatives have a sexual
relationship that produce an offspring. This refers to relations such as father
to daughter, son to mother, brother and sister, uncle to niece, aunt to nephew,
or grandparent to a grandchild. These relationships have always been frowned
upon by MOST cultures. The term incest itself is a clear description of how the
people of the past felt about these relationships. It is derived from the Latin
incestum which connotes impurity,
unchastity, defilement, and pollution. Other
nations have similar if not harsher connotations for the term. Among the
Chinese they used the term luan lun,
which meant disorder and social relationship. The Indonesians use the term sumbang which means improper and
repugnant. This gives us a clear idea of what most cultures thought of the idea
of incest.
However, not all cultures
viewed incest in a negative way. In Ancient Greece even their Gods and
Goddesses practiced incest; Zeus certainly married his own sister Hera and had
children with his other sisters. Other similar relationships were practiced by
the other deities in the Greek pantheon, which gives us an idea of how the
ancient Greeks viewed the practice. In the Judeo-Christian-Islamic traditions
incest was obviously the only viable explanation for the first men and women on
earth after God created the world. According to the Book of Jubilees, written
by a Pharisee in 109 B.C., the first cases of incest happened in the family of
Adam and Eve.
Other than the sons Cain,
Abel, and Seth, Adam and Eve also had daughters Awan and Azura plus nine other
sons. Further, Cain married his sister Awan and Seth married his sister Azura. Seth’s
and Azura’s son and daughter, Enos and Noam, also married each other while
their own son and daughter, Kenan and Mualeleth, also married one another. It
was only in the next generation with Kenan’s son Mahalalel that the incest
became slightly less closer. He married Dinah, a daughter of Kenan’s brother
Barakiel, thus making them first cousins. This practice was repeated in each
generation until reaching Noah who married his own first cousin once removed
Emzara, whose mother Rake’el was the daughter of a brother of Noah’s father.
Even the famous Abraham and his wife Sara were half-siblings, coming from the
same father but from different mothers.
Whether these were actual
marriages or not it cannot be denied that most ancient cultures practiced
endogamy, or marriage within the tribe or clan. For one thing, this was
expected as there were very few people in the world at that time and thus their
choice for a mate was extremely limited. Second, many ancient cultures also
associated religious beliefs in their marital practices. As described in Anne Rice’s book Queen of the Damned, “amongst many ancient peoples the royal blood went only through the
female line. Since no male can ever be certain of the paternity of his wife's
child, it was the Queen or the Princess who brought with her the divine right
to the throne. This is why Egyptian pharaohs of a later age often married their
sisters. It was to secure their royal right.” This was particularly true with
the last dynasty of Egypt, the Ptolemies, where at least 15 cases of inbreeding
were documented.
Ptolemy, one of Alexander the
Great’s generals, declared himself Pharaoh of Egypt. The first documented
incest in the dynasty was between Ptolemy’s daughter, Arsinoe II, who first
married her half-brother Ptolemy Keraunos. Later, she married her full brother,
Ptolemy II Philadelphos. The last ruler in the dynasty was the famed Cleopatra
VII, who married her brothers Ptolemy XIII and Ptolemy XIV. After her death the
dynasty came to an end. Of course, the case of the Ptolemies was not
necessarily duplicated in other ancient cultures. In most other cultures the
closest consanguineous marriages were between first cousins.
Consanguineous marriages are
not limited to other countries. As seen in our history many personalities also
practiced inbreeding of varying degrees. The families of Lakandula, Matanda,and Soliman practiced consanguineous marriages which were encouraged by their
exclusivity as a select group of native principales.
Of course, these three rulers also practiced family marriages. For instance,
Rajah Muhammad Matanda and his wife were first cousins, both being the
grandchildren of Sultan Bolkiah Shah of Brunei.
Then there was the case of
Jose Rizal and his great love Leonor Rivera. The two have always been described
as cousins though nothing documented exactly how there were related. Although
some books have written that the relationship was through the Mercado and Rizal
lines others have postulated that in fact the relationship was through Leonor’s
mother’s side of the family. Of course, Rizal and Rivera were never married.
However, a first cousin marriage did occur in the Rizal family with the
marriage of Emiliana Rizal and Antonio Rizal Lopez, who were first cousins.
Emiliana was the illegitimate daughter of Paciano Rizal with Severina Decena
while Antonio was the son of Paciano’s sister Narcisa and Antonino Lopez.
Among our presidents several
consanguineous marriages have also been documented. President Manuel L. Quezonmarried his first cousin Aurora Antonia Aragon; their mothers, MarĂa Dolores
Molina and Zeneida Molina, were the daughters of Jose de Esparragosa Urbina and
Brigida Molina.
Senator Benigno “Ninoy” Aquino, Jr.’s parents, Benigno S.
Aquino, Sr. and Aurora Aquino Aquino, were related, albeit already third
cousins. Benigno Sr.'s great-grandfather, Hilario Aquino, was the brother of
Aurora's great-grandfather.
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Secretary Mar Roxas's maternal grandparents, Jose Amado Araneta and Ester
Araneta, were fourth cousins, sharing a common descent from Don Vicente Araneta
y Sta. Ana.
Perhaps the most recent case
of consanguineous marriage between personalities was between former
Presidential son Juan Miguel “Mikey” Macapagal Arroyo and Angela Arroyo
Montenegro. Mikey’s father, former First Gentleman Jose Miguel “Mike” Tuason
Arroyo and Angela’s mother, Charito Rosario Arroyo, are first cousins and
grandchildren of former Senator Jose Maria Pidal Arroyo. Second cousins
marrying each other seems to be a tradition among the Montenegros as Angela’s
father Herman Montenegro’s father and mother were also second cousins.
In the modern world, laws have
been enacted and cultural taboos attached to the practice of marrying or having
relations with very close relatives. One necessary basic knowledge for
genealogists to have is on the terms used in describing relationships between
and among members in a family.
The first relationship terms
are pretty straightforward: starting from ourselves, we call those above us our
ancestors; beginning with mother and father (parents), grandparents,
great-grandparents, etc. Going down we call these people are descendants;
beginning with our sons and daughters (children), grandchildren,
great-grandchild, etc. Going sideways we call these people our siblings
(brother or sister).
Of course we have the siblings
of parents, who we call aunts and uncles and if going further up we just add
the word “great” before aunt and uncle, and another one for every generation
going up. The sons and daughters of these uncles and aunts are called cousins.
In order to distinguish
between allowable and prohibited marriages most nations have established the
basic laws of consanguinity where varying degrees of relationship define who
one can marry. The concept of degrees of relationship – identifying how many
degrees you are related to another person – can best be visualized by counting
your familial connection to somebody.
For example: to know how many
degrees related you are to your parents, you just need to count from yourself
then go up one step, thus reaching your parents, making them your first degree
relatives. To know your relation to your first cousin, for example, you have to
go up to your parents first (1st degree), then up to your
grandparents (2nd degree), then down to your aunt or uncle (3rd
degree), until reaching your first cousins, who are your 4th degree
relatives. See the chart below for better understanding:
So this means that while you
call your first cousin your FIRST cousin, he or she is actually your FOURTH
degree relative, your 2nd cousin your 6th degree
relative, 3rd cousin your 8th, and so on. Marriages in
most countries are thus defined by how many degrees related you are with your
prospective mate.
According to a 2012 article inEthical Technology published in the website of the Institute for Ethics and
Emerging Technologies worldwide attitudes on cousin marriages differ
considerably. Ethiopia's Orthodox Christians have the most prohibitive laws on
consanguineous marriages: it bans marriage between relatives up to 6th cousins.
They believe that if you share a common ancestor in the paternal line within 6
generations then you are still brothers and sisters, thus prohibited from
getting married.
South Korea prohibits cousins
marrying up to 3rd cousins; Taiwan, China, and the Philippines up to first
cousins. In the United States there are 31 of the 50 states that ban first
cousin marriage. Elsewhere, like in Europe and South America, consanguinity
generally isn’t banned though the incidence is relatively low. The article also
continues to show the places where cousin marriages are prevalent: Africa, the
Middle East, and South Asia are the most consanguineous regions in the world,
largely due to its general acceptance, even preference, in Islam. In India, the
Muslim rate of cousin marriage is 22%, with the rate nearly doubling to 40% in
Jammu and Kashmir. Pakistan, noted earlier, is the world leader in
consanguinity with around 70%; Saudi Arabia is 50+%; Iran and Afghanistan are
30-40%, Iraq 33%, Egypt and Turkey 20+%, and Qatar 54%.
It is estimated that there are
about 1.1 billion people in the world today who are either married to cousins
or the children of cousins and that, throughout history, approximately 80% of
all marriages have been to first or second cousins. That is why if you look at
your pedigree chart especially during the 16 to 1400s you will see a repetition
of names of ancestors; cousin marriage leads to a phenomenon called pedigree
collapse. In an ideal pedigree chart you should have two parents, four
grandparents, eight great-grandparents, and so on. Each generation should have
double the number of ancestors from the previous generation. However, if your
parents are first cousins, for example, then you would four grandparents but
only six instead of eight great-grandparents as both your parents share the
same grandparents. Pedigree collapse happens more and more in the early years
of civilization. The farther you are in the family tree, the smaller the number
of people in the place where your ancestors were from, thus necessitating the
marriage between relatives.
One reason for all the fuss
and interest in cousin marriages is the possibility of producing children with
genetic disorders. I don’t want to go into the details of genetic disorders,
but for the sake of discussion here are some of the possible genetic diseases
and problems that may be passed on to children of consanguineous couples at a
higher rate: schizophrenia, congenital heart defects, pulmonary stenosis and
atresia, cystic fibrosis, cystinosis, nephronophthisis, spinal muscular
atrophy, albinism, achromatopsia, hearing disorders, central nervous system
anomalies, congenital anomalies, physical handicaps, mental retardation and
malignancies, added risk of infant and child mortality.
In the end, I believe in two
things when it comes to consanguineous marriage: one, there are always unexplainable
circumstances that lead people to fall in love. Whether they are aware of their
blood relation or not is beside the point. Sometimes, when love comes knocking
no amount of taboo can discourage two people from pursuing their relationship.
Second, if two people push through with marriage despite the knowledge of a
close blood connection then they should be responsible enough to have genetic
counseling in order to determine what possible genetic diseases, if any, their
offspring may have.
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Sources:
1. Sheila L. Ager, Familiarity Breeds: Incest and the Ptolemaic Dynasty, The Journal of Hellenic Studies Vol. 125, (2005), pp. 1-34.
2. Kelly Trumble, The Library of Alexandria, USA: Clarion Books, 2003.
3. The Book of Jubilees
4. Anne Rice, Queen of the Damned, USA: Ballantine Books, September 13, 1989.
5. Luciano P.R. Santiago, The Houses of Lakandula, Matanda, and Soliman (1571-1898): Genealogy and Group Identity, Philippine Quarterly of Culture and Society, Volume 18, No. 1, March 1990.
6. Querijero-Molina Genealogy Page
7. Ambeth Ocampo, Rizal Without the Overcoat, Manila: Anvil Publishing, Inc., 1990.
8. Evelyn Z. Macalran, Mikey A marrying his Cousin? No Problem, Manila Standard, Dec. 11, 2001.
9. Sandy Araneta, Church says no bar for Mikey Arroyo to marry Second Cousin, Philippines Star, December 11, 2001.
10. Abe Florendo, ANGELA: GMA AN IDEAL MOM-IN-LAW, The Philippine Star, February 21, 2002.
11. Aquino Geni Page managed by Danica Yap
12. Familia Araneta Genealogy managed by Oscar Araneta
13. Hank Pellissier, Cousin Marriage - 70% in Pakistan - Should it be Prohibited?, Ethical Technology, Ma6 26, 2012.
14. Steve Sailer, Cousin Marriage Conundrum, The American Conservative, January 13, 2003.
2. Kelly Trumble, The Library of Alexandria, USA: Clarion Books, 2003.
3. The Book of Jubilees
4. Anne Rice, Queen of the Damned, USA: Ballantine Books, September 13, 1989.
5. Luciano P.R. Santiago, The Houses of Lakandula, Matanda, and Soliman (1571-1898): Genealogy and Group Identity, Philippine Quarterly of Culture and Society, Volume 18, No. 1, March 1990.
6. Querijero-Molina Genealogy Page
7. Ambeth Ocampo, Rizal Without the Overcoat, Manila: Anvil Publishing, Inc., 1990.
8. Evelyn Z. Macalran, Mikey A marrying his Cousin? No Problem, Manila Standard, Dec. 11, 2001.
9. Sandy Araneta, Church says no bar for Mikey Arroyo to marry Second Cousin, Philippines Star, December 11, 2001.
10. Abe Florendo, ANGELA: GMA AN IDEAL MOM-IN-LAW, The Philippine Star, February 21, 2002.
11. Aquino Geni Page managed by Danica Yap
12. Familia Araneta Genealogy managed by Oscar Araneta
13. Hank Pellissier, Cousin Marriage - 70% in Pakistan - Should it be Prohibited?, Ethical Technology, Ma6 26, 2012.
14. Steve Sailer, Cousin Marriage Conundrum, The American Conservative, January 13, 2003.
Hi! Me and my cousin has been together for almost 5 years and we have a 4 years old dAughter, and she is very healthy. We are working here in Dubai and we are planning to get married. Is this possible? We are both Filipino and we know thAt in our country first cousins cannot marry each other..
ReplyDeleteChapter 3, Art. 38 of the Family Code of the Philippines states that "The following marriages shall be void from the beginning for reasons of public policy"
Delete(1) Between collateral blood relatives whether legitimate or illegitimate, up to the fourth civil degree;
Your first cousin is your 4th degree relation so unfortunately you can't get married in the Philippines. I personally don't mind, but that is our policy.
But, can we get married here in Dubai?
DeleteI suggest you consult a lawyer. I am not really familiar with the legalities of cousin marriages. Good luck!
DeleteI like that term too - consanguineous relations. People have been using "incest" a lot recently since it's been a year since I got my first DNA test and learned a whole lot about various endogamous groups and how common it was among many different cultures, particularly in the old days where mobility wasn't an option.
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ReplyDeleteI'm also having a relationship with my cousin (2nd cousin)..I know that our case is permitted here in Philippines (the marriage thing)...the only problem is that marriage between cousins, doesn't matter what civil degree you are, is a taboo....in my family..they are too close-minded about this saying that as long as you cousins then is it no OK..
ReplyDeleteOnly the two of us know about our relationship...our families are really close to each other...and we are having hard time on to open this matter to them and make them understand..
My point is...whether it is permitted or not...Majority of the Filipinos are still not welcoming about this idea.
Same buddy. But how is your relationship with her now?
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